a little bit more on gender...

i realized after making the last video that some people may be confused by what i meant by 'transcending gender'. gender, especially in more recent times, conditions us to lose sense of that masculine/feminine balance that is within us. gender is something that will have men producing a lot of children but not stepping up and being responsibe, because 'men' don't do that; it's something that will have women being vindictive against the fathers of their children because she feels negatively about him, despite his being a wonderful, present father. it's something that conditions men not to cry when they are feeling sad. and so on...